FOBO, or "Fear of Better Options ", is the anxiety or indecision that comes from the belief that there may be a better choice than the one currently available. This fear often leads to procrastination, decision paralysis, or constantly second-guessing oneself, as the person struggles to commit to a choice out of fear that they might miss out on something superior.
It’s closely related to FOMO ( Fear of Missing Out ), but while FOMO is the fear of missing out on experiences, FOBO is the fear of making decisions, particularly when faced with multiple appealing alternatives.
The idea that "if something is meant for you, it will find its way back to you" is rooted in the concept of the law of the universe, often referred to as the law of attraction or the principle of divine timing. This belief suggests that the universe has a natural flow, and what is truly aligned with your purpose and energy will come into your life when the time is right, regardless of obstacles or delays. It emphasizes trust in the larger forces at play, acknowledging that while you must take action and pursue your desires, sometimes what is meant for you may require patience, faith, or even detours. If something leaves your life but is destined for you, it will eventually return, because it resonates with your unique path and energy, according to the universal law of alignment.
WHAT IF ? " It keeps coming back to you because you keep taking it back" is it a personal choice as compared to that it is written in your destiny or universal alignment. Maybe sometimes leaving things to the universe, it’s about recognizing the patterns we create in our lives. When something or someone repeatedly re-enters your life, it may not necessarily be because it’s meant to be, but because you are choosing to let it return, consciously or unconsciously. This could be driven by comfort, fear of change, or unresolved emotions. Instead of seeing it as a sign of destiny, it becomes important to assess whether this return is truly serving your growth or if it's a cycle you're maintaining out of habit or attachment.
"There are so many people waiting out there to give you the love you deserve, you just need to give them a chance" the love you seek is abundant, but often, we limit ourselves by holding onto the familiar or not being open to new possibilities. Sometimes, we stay in situations that no longer serve us or cling to the idea of love from a specific person, forgetting that love can come in many forms and from unexpected sources. By opening your heart and mind, and being willing to take risks, you allow yourself to experience the kindness, care, and affection that others are ready to offer. True connection often requires vulnerability, trust, and the willingness to let go of preconceived notions, allowing love to flow freely into your life.
FOBO ( Fear of Better Options ) can play a significant role in why someone might stay in a toxic relationship. In this context, FOBO creates a sense of paralyzing indecision. The person may fear leaving the toxic relationship because they worry that they won’t find anything better, or that if they leave, they might miss out on the possibility that the current relationship will improve. This fear can lead to staying stuck in a harmful situation, constantly evaluating hypothetical options and not committing to the difficult choice of ending it.
In toxic relationships, this fear of the unknown can be compounded by emotional dependency, low self-esteem, or the belief that the person won't find love or care elsewhere. FOBO can make someone focus more on what they might lose or miss, rather than on their current well-being. Ultimately, FOBO becomes a barrier to healing and moving forward, as the person remains caught between dissatisfaction and the fear that there might not be a better alternative.
SO ARE YOU REALLY MEANT TO BE WITH THAT PERSON YOU ARE WAITING FOR - OR ARE YOU JUST IN FOBO ?
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