UNDERSTANDING YOUR TRUE EMOTIONS TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP : One Day Or Day One

" Never chase love , affection or attention .If isn't given freely by the another person , it isn't worth having "

If you are someone holding on to the hope that one day everything will work out for your connection then this blog is specially for you . Some times we are pulled in so many different directions that we easily devote our energy to those people or things that demand attention first as compared to whose who we would prefer to give our energy and attention to. Have you ever wondered why is it so ? It is because you are agonizing over the direction a particular relationship is going and you have no control over your emotions regarding the situation . Yes , that's right you are ignoring or running away from facing your true emotions towards that relationship and that particular situation.

Maybe no , one day everything will not work out for you. Maybe yes , today is day one where you face your true emotions towards a particular relationship and move on to things that are for your higher good. I want you to sit with yourself and think about what exact main emotion you get in your mind when you think about this person ? Are you feeling happy ? Are you feeling joyfulness ? Do you feel burdensome ? Is this somebody you can trust right now? Do you feel loved by them ? Is this connection draining ? Do you feel equal in this connection ? or maybe thinking about this connection triggers a pit of anxiety that you try to escape every time you devote yourself and your energy to things that are not related to this person ?

I want you to understand that you need to move on from a cycle of denial which is fueled by your own thought of obsessively and desperately wanting to make this connection work. Yes I going to call it obsession and desperation because this person does not make an equal effort with you , forget equal they don't even make fifty percent of what you do. They do not make an effort to spend quality time with you , it is you always who wants to spend more and more time with them. You do not feel like your best self while waiting for them , look at yourself having cut yourself socially , wanting to just isolate yourself so you don't have to answer people why you are still making yourself suffer. Your independence you have lost it completely , do you even recognize your individual self ? Can you talk about one activity you can do all by yourself , for yourself just because you like doing it and not because some random tarot reader or relationship coach asked you to work on yourself to make this relationship work.

Accept the fact that your relationship evolved over time and has now changed . It's high time you start seeing this change for your best and better rather than your worse . There are hundreds of studies and research's that emphasize on the quality of your relationship than the quantity of maybe how much time you have spent together , how much time you have known each other or maybe how much you have invested in this relationship. For self growth and a flourishing mental health there has to be a correlation between having good relationship and personal happiness. It is far better to have a new meaningful relationship than having an old toxic and unsatisfactory relationship. It is important to constantly keep yourself attuned to how you feel about your romantic relationship and what impact that relationship has on your life . If you are mindful regarding your romantic relationship only then you are most likely to recognize the true soulmate connection that will enhance your life rather than potentially having a negative influence on it.

LOVE is a beautiful communicable energy , it flows better when communicated openly and honestly . It is definitely not an energy which can be flourished only by the efforts of one person. Just like a conversation is a two way process , Love is too. This is why right here I want to show you a mirror and want you to know this feeling of not being able to move on is because your ego self has blurred your vision and now you no longer understand that people change and the people that we are talking about here is YOU . You have changed and you no longer need your old ways , this is the time for you to walk and explore new paths.

If the relationship you are thinking about is now toxic , unhealthy and effects you deeply . Rather than accosting the relationship and dealing with it in a hot headed and impulsive manner accept that sometimes it is better to let go than making yourself suffer. It is easier said than done especially when you have invested a lot of time and energy in a relationship and maybe even materialist investment but now is the time for you to think do you still want to wait for maybe ONE DAY or today is DAY ONE of you working towards the life you deserve and giving yourself the LOVE that you have been wasting on somebody who does not deserve it.